Today, I am not exhausted by the end of the day. After a week of feeling tired, I knew I needed to make some adjustments to my diet. As soon as I made the change, my energy levels have improved. This is the power of knowledge. Unless you know how to to apply the knowledge correctly, the availability of knowledge doesn’t do much for you.
Today, the internet is replete with information about healthy diets. But this information is often overwhelming for people, who don’t understand the basics of nutrition. Once you know the basics, it becomes easy to adapt.
There’s a lot that has happened since I wrote my last post. So, let’s make this post a little newsy.
Today, I learned that the elderly lady who lived in the apartment opposite mine passed away on the day of Holi. I did see a lot of people in the apartment, but I couldn’t make out as I thought her family has come to celebrate Holi with her. In the last couple of days, when I wanted to go and ask about her well-being, the apartment would be closed in the evening. So, today, I made sure to go a little early. I talked to her two daughters who were hosting her funeral.
I called her Aunty, I didn’t even know her name. I don’t know why I never asked her. Aunty was a very gentle soul. She didn’t talk much, but always smiled when she saw me. I never saw her complaining. She went for her walks and sometimes she went to meet her daughters. Other than that, she remained in her apartment. Her husband had passed away a few years ago.
Death is a difficult subject to talk about. I have often wondered how do people cope with parents passing away. I lost my father and other parental figures at different point of time in my life. It’s as if, it has happened so frequently that I never got time to mourn one death full, before the next would happen. I have found it difficult to cope especially because I stay away from my family and they are not very talkative when I call.
Yesterday, I attended the launch of my friend’s new physiotherapy clinic. As someone who has lived a bit of a nomadic life, I have had very few opportunities to integrate with my local neighborhood. But I have found that I have been able to make more connections in my present neighborhood than any others I have lived in the past. So, it was nice to be invited to attend this launch. Although I didn’t know many people, it was nice to see the people who came to celebrate her success and wish her for the journey ahead.
We did take a pic for the social media. These days no event is complete without posting a pic or writing about on social media. It is not optional, but mandatory. It feels good too. Although there is always a chance of people judging you, yet you want to have that courage to go and post the happenings in your life. Even the most mundane activities are worthy of a social media post.
I think one of the reasons is that we all want to be relevant. Further, most of our families and friends are in different cities or countries. At least this is true for me. My nomadic life has meant that I have friends across the world making it difficult for me to keep in touch. Sometimes, when I get time I try to connect with them but often these connections are then lost as life gets busy.
Earlier this month, I also attended the launch of a Communication School in my neighborhood. First, I was invited to be the part of the Board of Studies. It was an interesting experience. It felt good to be able to use my learnings from my Ph.D. I hope to get more involved with young people. I enjoy interacting and engaging with young people. It helps me learn where the society is headed. Because young people with their ambition and aspiration shape the direction of any society. As a cultural researcher, I enjoy learning about the changes and shifts that take place in society.
Holi, this year for me was a quiet affair. I didn’t do much. I had just started gymming that week after a break so I was just trying to rest it out. But I managed to do a flower meditation with my sketchbook and paints. It’s tough to get back to painting. I think I still have the skills and what I learned. However, my concentration levels are not the same. Basically I am not in the flow. So, I need to keep practicing so that I can get into the rhythm of painting. I have many half-completed projects, which I need to complete. Some are commissioned too. So, I need to complete them as soon as I can.
I started reading this very illuminating book called,”Chasing the Scream” by Johann Hari. It is a 5 part book and I have read 3 parts until now. I have learned that it’s not only the addicted individuals but the politics, which has shaped the problem of drug abuse. At some level, it makes sense. When something is illegal, the curiosity for it is high. Also it creates an opportunity for smuggling and thus charging higher rates for it. The book is a good study of the entire culture of drug abuse and addiction. I am looking forward to completing it soon and then writing about it in detail.
For the past few months, one of the ways I relax is by watching YouTube vlogs on Indians living in Japan. These are young Indians living in Japan and they make vlogs about their life. I love this armchair traveling through the lens of a young individual from India. It’s interesting how they observe the cultural differences between India and Japan. It’s like ethnography on video. They talk about their life, then the Japanese culture and life and then they compare the two cultures. They also answers queries from young Indians who want to move to Japan. I gave up my Netflix account a few months ago because I felt I was spending a lot of time there and didn’t find anything exciting to watch.
It was good to give up Netflix, but then I started watching YouTube. I now need to minimize my YouTube time but it’s much more fun to watch vlogs. I learn a lot about different cultures and how young people make decisions.
As someone who has lived in another country for almost a decade, I enjoy learning about other cultures. I wish I could do it again. Maybe I should do it in Mumbai too. I am thinking about it. That’s one reason, I have decided to write more on my blog so that I can probably start vlogging too.